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How to Convince your Partner to have Anal Sex
In her weekly column, she gives Complex readers insight into what today's young women really think about love, sex, and relationships. Ah, anal sex! Once the excitement of oral and standard piping wears off, back-door entry becomes the last item an average dude hopes to check off his sexual to-do list. If you've already awkwardly asked her about it, it may seem like she has no interest, but you're just not approaching it properly.
Is there a more awkward conversation to have with your lady than finding a way to uhh The gritty details of the act don't exactly lend themselves well to being talked about over dinner. But you can't just try to slip it in when things are getting hot and heavy without asking, either. No seriously, don't try it. You'll get smacked.
Use lube. You have no idea how sexy male moans are. Start out by using a finger. Go slow.