By Tracey Cox. Is it OK to have sex on the side if your partner's not giving you any? And what if you're both bored silly by sex - would you be better off not having it all? Here's my brutally honest solutions to sex dilemmas we all struggle with. It depends what you mean by exhausted.
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Has your husband been saying "not tonight, dear" a little too often? It's hard not to feel rejected, but it doesn't necessarily mean he's lost that lovin' feelin' for you. Learn about the most common reasons he may not be in the mood and what you can do about it. If he's retreating to his man cave each night, that could create a pattern of disconnection, says Debra Castaldo , PhD, a relationship expert and director of the Center for Couples and Family Solutions in Midland Park, NJ. He may not realize you're missing him, though, so tell him. Try: "It seems like we're spending most of our evening time apart. I know you want to chill out, but I miss being with you.
My Husband Makes Every Excuse Possible Not to Have Sex
When we do once, maybe twice a year , he is interested, but it is me who initiates it. We have argued a lot about this because I feel our relationship has turned into a friendship. We do love each other and this is the only problem we have, but it has had a serious impact on my self-confidence. I have spoken to him about this openly every few months for years. He then tells me he does still find me attractive and that he will make more of an effort — and that lasts for a week.
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