Imagine that you're in, say, a decently happy relationship , and things are going fine. You're starting to get more comfortable together in the sack , so you venture to ask your significant other if they have any sexual fantasies they want to explore. You're imagining some handcuffs, maybe, or some doctor-nurse role-play. Her now ex- husband wanted to arrange sexual encounters for her—and initially, she was game to give it a try. Permission to play around, to cheat , to have her cake a committed relationship with one man and eat it too plus hot sex with others?
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This, of course, is a misappropriation of the full version of the word, which is apparently derived from the name of the cuckoo bird. Some female cuckoos change male partners and lay their eggs in other nests—a humiliating act of betrayal insofar as birds can actually feel humiliated. This is somewhat analogous to the situation of a man who has unknowingly been cheated on by a woman. Historically, being a cuckold indicated unwitting marriage to an adulterous woman—undesirable, by all accounts. But sexual appetites change. A quick search on your porn website of choice will reveals a wealth of cuckold-inspired videos, from amateur hotel liaisons to professional content. With millions of views on the major online porn players and year-on-year increases in Google hits, the cuckold fantasy is indeed alive and well.
At the most basic level, a cuckolding fetish is about a guy getting turned on by his wife or girlfriend sleeping with someone else. Sound like your worst nightmare? Not everyone agrees. In November the Independent reported reported that Google searches for 'cuckolding' hit a peak, and according to Google Trends, the UK is second only to the Netherlands in searches for the kink. Why would someone be into cuckolding?
Photo by Stocksy. Question: My wife and I have been happily married for 30 years. We have fantasized about her having another man and, while that's not likely to happen, I thought it might be enjoyable for both of us if she were to get a sensual massage from a man I have been corresponding with. It is a great source of stimulation for me to think about, but I have not brought it up to her at this point.