Lately, my husband has started to insert his finger in my back passage when we have sex. I can usually stand it for about 30 seconds then have to pull his hand away because it hurts. Then he sometimes attempts it again — but I have to do push him away. He used to just lightly touch me there and that was ok but now he keeps going further. It is only recently that I started doing oral sex on him.
Skip navigation! Story from Sex Tips. Have you ever heard of anal fingering? It's exactly what it sounds like — putting a finger or several into someone's anus. And if you're considering anal sex , anal fingering could be a logical first step.
What anal fingering feels like according to 15 women
Fingering means entering your own anus or someone else's anus with your finger. It is important to take your time when starting to finger someone and to use enough lube to prevent damage to the tissue. Make one finger moist with lube to prevent damage to both the outside and inside of your anus. Some men use spit when fingering, but unfortunately, spit dries up too quickly.
While we know some dudes and people with penises just love a bit of prostate massage , what about women and vagina-havers? Although we don't have a prostate gland life is cruel anal fingering can still feel amazing because there are loads of nerves around there and it can also put pressure on your G-spot from inside. It also happens to be a great way to prepare for anal sex. These 10 women get very real about what it feels like to be fingered in the ass during sex.